Teen added to WhatsApp group with inappropriate content, bullies; mum sounds warning

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A Dubai mother has raised concerns about WhatsApp groups that randomly add students, following a disturbing experience with her 14-year-old son's phone. British expat Farrah noticed an unusual amount of notifications on her son's phone and discovered he had been added to a group titled "Dubai GC" without his consent. The group included 626 students, many of whom he didn't know, and featured highly inappropriate content.

Farrah was alarmed by the nature of the messages, which included insults, bullying, and name-calling. Some members of the group shared personal details such as names, ages, schools, and residential areas. The most troubling aspect was the behavior of the group admin, who seemed intent on provoking the children and encouraging them to disclose more personal information.

Some conversations in the group involved children as young as 10, and there were instances where students planned to meet in person. Farrah took immediate action by ensuring her son left and deleted the group. She also contacted the mother of her son's classmate who had added him to the group, warning her about the situation. The classmate's mother was grateful and also made sure her son exited the group.

This incident highlights a broader issue faced by parents in Dubai. Many have reported similar experiences with anonymous WhatsApp and Instagram groups that prompt children to share personal details with strangers. One parent recounted finding her daughter following a private Instagram page that encouraged anonymous confessions, filled with inappropriate content. This led her to remove Instagram from her daughter's phone.

Educators and experts have consistently warned about the dangers of communicating with strangers online. Recently, a Dubai school issued an advisory about the social media platform 'Monkey,' which allows users to connect with strangers via video. The school highlighted the significant safeguarding risks, including exposure to inappropriate content and privacy concerns.

In their guidance to parents, schools recommend maintaining open communication with children about the potential risks of using online platforms, setting clear boundaries, and monitoring their online activities. Farrah's experience serves as a crucial reminder of the importance of vigilance in protecting children from the dangers lurking in seemingly harmless social media interactions.